alamak, i'm sorry for not blogging for almost 3 weeks. as usual my life has been normal. as usual, work had a few problems. normal!
anyway, finally my heart has been filled. she's easy going, easy to talk to, we can talk about general stuffs. she doesn't talk so much about her every detail of life, from work to friends and family. you know girls love to talk about her life but too much small details that i really had a hard time listening to it cos its too boring and its tiring, seriously.
example:
"Bie, you know what, at my work, my colleague had a quarrel with my boss you know! bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla
Ah Seng was not satisfied because his project idea was rejected. The boss took the other stupid guy's idea. and i think its really a stupid idea. pity right?! poor Ah Seng. boss very biased one!"
lets break it up the conversation so you'll get what i mean by too much details.
topic - her colleague had a quarrel with his boss.
main details - Ah Seng had a quarrel with the boss cos his project idea was rejected, instead the other person passed. and the other person's idea was not as good as Ah Seng's. and the girl you talking to were siding Ah Seng because she thinks his idea is better.
extra details - her colleague's name is Ah Seng
- used to be a salesman
- single and boring
- wear too casual clothes
- smells bad
- yellow teeth
- short hair
- the quarrel happened after lunch
- during lunch went to watsons to get shampoo
(this is the part where she'll talk about what her)
- the shampoo is expensive but smells very nice
(more about what she's been doing during lunch time)
- then saw a man that looked like her ex.
(trying to get your attention)
- didn't bother to smile at him even though he smiled at her
(she wanted to show you she's a good girl)
- had fried rice for lunch
- at her favourite kopitiam
- too crowded but had no choice cos she's hungry
- and so on and on and on.....
this is an example of how some girls are boring to me. talk too much details. even my sister was like that. thats why when she's talking to me, when she started going to some extra details, i'll tell her, "please, summarise it."
and girls, if you are like that, try watching the body movement of the guy whos' listening to you.
most probably he'll look away a few times. and often these times he's trying to cover his yawning.